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{April 4, 2011}   My View Point On Men Continued

Nov 3, 2009 I made a post, “My point of view on men,” and had a friend comment asking me to dig deeper about my thoughts on the subject.  I recently posted a comment reply to his comment, but realized that we all moved from MSN’s … to hear and thought best to post my reply in a new post in hopes to reconnect with my friends from that site or gain new readers. 


Wow alot of time has passed and obviously Curtis, your question from Nov 6, 2009 has been at the back of my mind for quite some time now. I haven’t even taken the time to write on Chapter 12 and felt I couldn’t until I could answer your question. Here is my thought on this topic, “Why are men important.”

Men have strengths women do not, they have insight to offer children that women do not. Just the same in why a Man can not understand and offer what a woman can. I think God created Man knowing all that needed to be tended to and accomplished. A woman was created to help the man and offer comfort. Commonly, Men are the authoritative person in the home due to women being consumed by emotion and can’t always be the stern one in a crisis a child might go through or the family in general. Usually a man can provide clarity where a woman might be to involved with her feelings. Christ tells the man to love the woman as He has loved/loves the church. For the church is His bride. Jesus gave his life for the church (us), so a man should love and honor his wife as such.

Honor is a word I looked up just this morning in reading Psalm 46. It has several definitions, I will list a few. :

1)honesty, fairness, or integrity in one’s beliefs and actions.

2)a source of credit or distinction: to be an honor to one’s family.

3)high respect, as for worth, merit, or rank.

4)such respect manifested.

5)high public esteem; fame; glory: earned position of honor. ….

There are several more explanations of the word honor that I won’t list here. In the last year and 4 months, I have learned to trust men again and know without doubt they are a valueble asset in one’s life and family, if walking with the Jesus and submissive to God’s will and command.

A woman can experience real love from a man who is a husband rather then one who is merely dating or a casual outing. She can find a person who will care, listen, and hold her when she just needs that extra TLC. (Tender loving care).

The child or children can find direction and character in showing respect and love to a woman or how to interact to the world if lead by a good man.


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